How to Have a Happy Child

How to Have a Well Adjusted Child

I hope that someday the public media will pick up on this article and broadcast its benefits to the world. The idea, in my opinion, deserves a prominent place on "60 Minutes", "Oprah", and every parent/child oriented publication on the planet.

Properly done, this idea will launch our children into an adulthood filled with high levels of inner peace and self confidence. If every child was given these benefits our eventual opportunities for world peace would far exceed those promised by our military and its bombs and other threats. Indeed, if everyone received these benefits skillfully, our military, bombs and other threats would likely become unnecessary. War is not needed for those who truly have personal peace.

The Basic Idea:

The basic idea is simple. Every night, while children are being tucked into bed, parents should ask...

"Can you tell me about your good and bad thoughts as well as the good and bad things that happened to you today?"

Then, as the events are being told (both good and bad), the parents should lightly and lovingly either tap or gently rub the EFT points.

Expected Results:

Experienced EFT'ers can readily see the benefit for tapping on the "bad" things (we'll talk about tapping on the "good" things later). As the child tells the story s/he is clearly "tuned into" the problem. Thus tapping on the EFT points is likely to resolve the issues or, at the very least, lighten their impacts on the child.

This is critical for children because they are constantly picking up "stuff" from parents, teachers, peers, television and so on. These inputs go on daily and accumulate over the years to fill what we adults often call our "emotional garbage bags." If these inputs go unresolved, of course, they form unnecessary "limits" and thwart the attainment of our true potentials. These unnecessary fears, guilts, griefs and traumas often have a thunderous effect on our "adult realities" and cost us dearly in both our personal peace and our pocketbooks.

Some examples of the "bad" things children might bring up would be....
"Daddy scared me when he yelled at me."
"I saw a monster eating people on television."
"My teacher doesn't think I'm very smart."
"I can't run as fast as Jimmy."
"Donna is prettier than me."
"The minister said I have to be perfect or God won't love me."

EFT is Like...

EFT is Like...

hypnotherapy but adds extra power to the process because it integrates the body's subtle energies.

talk therapy with the advantage that it allows us to get to the issues faster and resolve them more thoroughly.

massage therapy by adding an important emotional relaxation process.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy because it helps bring up the issues faster and creates more (and deeper) Cognitive Shifts behind the scenes.

hypnotherapy because it allows us to take the process even deeper.

Systematic Desensitization except that it is much more gentle and often faster.

our Chiropractic work because it allows us to include important emotional issues and to integrate the body's subtle energies.

an emotional version of acupuncture, except we don't use needles. Instead, we stimulate the meridians by tapping on them with our fingertips.

EFT is an obvious extension of Einstein's discovery in the 1920's that all matter, including the human body, is composed of energy.

When physical issues resist healing

When physical issues resist healing

Many clients would say that they don't have an emotional issue with X. Just ask them to 'play along' and when they do, they will be surprised when their healing occurs.

One of the most obvious conclusions you will get from consistent use of EFT is that there is an undeniable link between physical ailments and unresolved emotional issues. Our EFT Insights Newsletter is loaded with true case histories whereby physical pain fades while emotional issues are being addressed.

Often, we can apply EFT to a physical problem (e.g. "this headache") and watch it disappear in moments. Sometimes, however, the physical problem doesn't budge ... or ... it fades for a while and "comes back." This is usually evidence that there is an unresolved emotional issue behind it that needs to be neutralized. Once this is done, the physical pain is likely to be relieved.

I have a favorite question for playing detective in this regard. Once I have isolated a physical ailment that is resisting healing, I ask....

"If there was an emotional contributor to this pain, what would it be?"

If the client draws a blank then just ask them to guess. Their guess will usually take you in useful directions.

Please consult physicians on all medical issues.

Blue Monday

Blue Monday January 18

Today is called 'Blue Monday' because that is when the most people get depressed.
As I'm writing this, it is 'Blue Monday'.

Why is it today, 'Blue Monday'?

Some poll organization found out that there are several factors that make today a day of depression or stress. It's because it's after the holidays, so that does not cheer them up. Then it's a day when many credit cards bills come due. As you know, a lot of people charge things on their bank cards to pay for Christmas gifts.

Of course, the Establishment's solution is to pop some anti-depressant pills or see a psychotherapist. But if you looking for something that will get to your cause and not just the symptom, you've come to the right place.

EFT can take care of stress, depression and any other emotional problem you may have. EFT will not pay your bills, or get you a job or anything like that. But it will get you in a positive frame of mine to handle what problems you have. After all, your problems do have to be taken care of, so why not get in the best emotional state you can.

With EFT you will get fast, pain-free releaf - often in less than 30 minutes.

For more information on how this can be done, kindly email me (Craig) at: eftcyprus@yahoo.com and find out more. You will get a free consultation, so write to me now!